Healing and Why it's Important in Twin Flame Journey?
Dealing with various collectives daily, what I come across is that most have no clue what some of the healing aspects are when it comes to their Twin Flame journey. If romance was the only focal part of the Twin Flame connection, let’s face it, you would have achieved union, the very thing you desire the most with your Twin Flame. If your Twin Flame is not ready, then neither are you. This doesn’t mean that those who are in Twin Flame relationship have achieved union. This is an ongoing process for all whether you are in separation with your Twin Flame, whether in relationship, or whether your Twin Flame is not in embodiment. In this 4 part series, I will reveal what Twin Flame healing is. See Part II here.
Unfortunately, the journey does not spare anyone. This is also a false misconception that if you are in a Twin Flame journey, you can choose “free will” to opt out, which is not the case at all. Your Soul will hound you to the grave until you dive into your healing. Your life will be in constant disarray with same repeated cycles over and over again, like that Tom Cruise Movie, Edge of Tomorrow. At the end of the movie, he figures out how to break the pattern of the same recurrences.
Twin Flame journey is designed in such way, that it is meant to transform you in every aspect, from old patterns and conditioning, stemming from past life blocks and traumas which bled to your current reality and dynamics with your beloved. Your Soul will dangle your Twin as a juicy carrot to have you dive into deeper healing. So long as you are doing your healing and keeping this as your main primary focus, and not your Twin Flame, you will find that the journey will be less agonizing.
If you are under the impression that self healing will get you further into your journey, and that you have all the tools you need, I will explain here why only self healing will not work alone. Working one on one with gifted healers is pivotal in your Twin Flame journey as well. You cannot access subconscious traumas and wounding on your own. It doesn’t allow you to dive as deep. Guided meditations help but it should be in conjunct with other healing modalities.
In this article, we will be diving into many aspects of Twin Flame healing.
Past Life Traumas
When you begin digging into your past lives you had with your Twin Flame, and other lifetimes when you were not with them, you will learn very quickly that your current scenario of dynamics is a recurrence of those. There’s no bearing of knowing that you were a King, Queen, Prince or Princess in your past life unless there is a trauma associated with it. So, if someone tells you this in a reading, you might want to ask them how this is relevant to your current life or dynamics with your Twin Flame. This is why, I advise you to seek those gifted healers who can take you to your past life to show you the trauma and bring you back safely. Personally, I prefer these types of healers myself who allow me to see and experience everything. This is when I know it’s more real. All my findings in my own journey were not pretty. Facing your dragons and demons is never an easy process but I always find my breakthrough in my own journey this way.
- Past Life Regression “Past life regression is a technique that uses hypnosis to recover what practitioners believe are memories of past lives or incarnations.” – Wikipedia
- Akashic – Akashic comes from a Sanskrit word Akasha, a Universal Library of records containing imprints of past life events or emotions, which have some bearing in this lifetime.
- Shamanism – A Shaman essentially works in tandem with helper spirits in the spiritual realms. They summon the spirits to repair a Soul, gather information, retrieve power animal, and aid in ancestral healing and work.
- Soul Retrieval – When parts of your lost Soul fragments are retrieved, usually from occurred trauma.
- Soul Extraction – losing parts of Soul fragments that are still attached from previous lifetimes, which weighs a person down.
- Removal of Unwanted Energies – When you have present of negative entities.
- Ancestral Work also known as Psychopomp – Assisting deceased ancestors to pass through to the other side and aid them in their healing. Clearing any ancestral residuals that bled through the family lineage.
- Akashic and Past Life Regression – Paris. My Twin and I were married and while giving birth to our first born child, our son and I didn’t make it. This devastated my Twin Flame. I died with a grudge against the Universe for robbing our lives soon.
- Akashic and Past Life Regression – Somewhere in Europe. Repeated scenario, same as above situation. Died while giving birth to our child which again left my Twin Flame out in the cold.
- Akashic and Past Life Regression – Greece. I am Ethena. Upon Googling, Athena was a Goddess, daughter of Zeus. Didn’t have any children of her own. She adopted one. Owl was her bird. Owl is one of my very strong Animal Spirit Guide. In this finding, my Twin Flame and I were longing for a child but didn’t have any.
- Past Life Regression – I was three years old when my hut caught on fire and I was burnt alive. This trauma replayed in my physical reality at the age of 3 when I was playing with matches. I had 3rd degree burns in my stomach. This is part of my current inner child wounds and blocks.
It is a known fact that children up to the age of seven, can relive the same trauma from previous life in this lifetime for the Soul to give you clues on what needs to be healed from Soul amnesia.
Akakshic Money Clearing
- I was a rich landlord who schemed people for money. I had no sense of Karma. I did forgery on land documents to own them myself, which led people to be penniless. I died by getting sick (bed ridden) with no repentance.
- I was rich. My parents left me to be their heir. My step siblings tricked me into forgery. Took over my castle which left me penniless. I hung myself to a tree.
- I was a Pharaoh. I was the youngest. Greed and power made me blind. I killed my siblings to gain power over the throne.
- India – Where the trauma set the intention. I was a beggar and hated my life as a beggar. I was old, hungry. Hated that no one gave me money. I died of old age. I made a VOW NOT to be a beggar again in the next lives. I vowed never to beg for money again.
Shamanic Healing
- Soul Extraction – I had couple of Souls from past lives that released from my vibrational frequencies. These were my own trapped Souls weighing me down.
- Soul Retrieval – Black Panther and Hummingbird embodied me as my power animals to be a Shaman Healer. Released unwanted energetic cords between my Twin Flame and I. My Twin’s Higher Self joined me in this session. My mini me, (inner child) also embodied me to make me whole again.
- Egypt – I was married to a King and my Twin Flame was an Army General. We had an affair and when it came to making a choice to be either with my Twin Flame or my King, I chose my duties as a Queen. I made a VOW to my Twin Flame that in the next following lifetimes, I will only be his only and no one else’s. This played out in reality so far in all lifetimes I have seen and as well as present reality.
When my healer wanted to detach us for split seconds to make me whole again, my Twin’s Higher Self tugged along without detaching. This amused my healer as she was not aware of the dynamics of a Twin Flame connection. “You cannot detach from your Twin Flame ever, not even for a second. That energetic cord is tethered to both Twins through lifetimes, space and dimensions.”
Reiki
Reiki Practitioner draws in Universal Lifeforce Energy, and as well as enables all Chakras into its ability to selfheal.
When selecting a Certified Reiki Practitioner, ensure that this person is at least Level 2 or above. I personally will not allow anyone to do my healing if they are not at least Level 3 Master or above certified. Each level obtains a special attunement and training which is not the same thing at Level 1 or 2. I am very guarded on who does my healing, for the simplest reasons being, my Twin Flame will also get affected. In my own Reiki healing sessions, my Twin’s Higher Self joined me numerous times, making this as one of my most recommended must.
Inner Child Healing
The general idea of inner child work is that you make contact, listen, communicate, and nurture your inner child, a mini version of you. Typically, your inner child will be from ages one to seven years old. In this type of healing, you find and heal the roots of your issues as an adult. It is best to find a healer who specializes in this type of healing as they can allow you to access deeper subconscious wounds and traumas which is deeply embedded in your Soul and vibrational frequencies.
“Every adult has inner child issues, making this a key block in my list to heal and address. It is up to you to dig into a conscious and subconscious level to know what that is. Please see my in-depth article on this, click here.
Other Healing
- Journaling – allows you to track your highs and lows of your journey and dynamics with your Twin Flame. This is pivotal in your healing process as months and years go by, you see your progress and have something to compare with.
- Daily Gratitude – allows you to see the cup half full vs nothing. In your journal write 3 things you are grateful of. Once you begin doing this, you will realize how powerful this is.
- Mirror Exercise – “I AM…” affirmations to anchor a state of being in. This is powerful as it allows you to become present in owning yourself.
- Guided Meditations – This alone will not open your spiritual gifts or allow you to heal on deeper level. To me this is still a temporary band aid but is vital in my list especially if you mix the healing type of variations.
- Law of Attraction – One of the key points on healing as it shifts your paradigms, which is keynote in Twin Flame journey. Many have a misconception that this is a form of manipulation, when in reality, it is shifting paradigms to match the same vibrational alignments of any manifestation in order for fruition to occur. Five part starts here.
Physic Readings
If you are addicted to readings and think this is healing, I have news for you. This will not heal you nor will it propel your Twin Flame connection and journey forward. Readings should be essential tool to obtain guidance but should not be limited to only this. Be very guarded who you allow to read you and your Twin Flame. Go with reputable readers only. Readers only read energy and cannot validate your Twin 100%, nor they can predict outcome and timelines. Outcome is decided by your Higher Self and your original Soul contract. Timelines are a linear in other dimensions.
By doing inner work, you do change outcomes and timelines. It is up to you to decide what this means for you. By working on self, you only are shifting into a better version of you which will result in a better life and abundance with your Twin Flame or someone who is in that vibrational match. So either ways, you come out as a winner at the end.
Healing Process with a Healer
- Connect with a healer.
- Identify the blocks or core wounds. This will be on a conscious, subconscious and unconscious level, from this lifetime and past lifetime.
- Reflect on it, the most painful part after the intense session. Here you will meet your dragons and demons. Things that you wouldn’t ever think will be the issue, you will find is the issue here.
- Begin healing and purging.
- Realize it’s a slow process. You have eons of trauma stuck in your auric field and this is not an overnight process.
- Meanwhile ask your Guides what’s next to heal or address.
- Perhaps repeat the session with the healer if there’s still residue left.
- Let go of any expectation pre healing and after the healing. Go with the flow and know that it will all add up eventually.
In this picture you see the Divine Feminine is leading the way for Divine Masculine to follow, an analogy brilliantly explained by one of the leading Twin Flame Teachers. She couldn’t have used a better analogy to show the collectives how this works. “As you rise, so do they. As you heal, so do they.”
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