Healing Your Inner Child

Whether one likes to admit to oneself or not, Inner Child is one of the biggest block in Twin Flame Journey. Most cannot even begin to fathom how crucial this is in anyone’s life, let alone in a Divine Partnership. Either these core wounds are stemming from a childhood trauma(s) on an unconscious or conscious level or past life trauma, which bled into one’s current reality. In my case, it is a combination of both which I will explain as well. Childhood inner child healing is typically from ages one to seven years of age. During this phase, a child’s comprehension and psyche level of understanding is innocent. What may seem traumatic to a child of this age group may not seem relevant to an adult who has the ability to understand it on a much mature level.

That being said, even some adults have a hard time from distinguishing what an adult behavior is, and what is considered an immature behavior. If anyone follows Law of Attraction Coach, Bob Proctor’s teachings, he explains it brilliantly about programming and beliefs. An example of subconscious programming will be of two biological twins, both born in an African family, later one is adopted by a Caucasian family and the other to an Asian family, both of the children’s upbringing will be different. From culture, religion, food, language, this will be all different from even their biological parents who are African to the ones who adopted them. Therefore, as you can see subconscious programing can be your worst enemy or your best ally.

What this may look like in your unique situation is part of the programming. In my case, I realized my programming began at young age with my suave grandpa, my dad’s dad who occasionally spent time with us. I remember his crisp ironed clothes, his goatee, his hat and his cigar or pipe, along with his long rifle, hahaa…To this day, this is a must have in my own list for someone I am attracted to. He should be suave and stylish, a well-groomed, well-mannered man and a good dresser. Thankfully, my Twin Flame fits these criteria, minus him not being a smoker and not owning a rifle. When all this sunk in to me, I realized just how much subconscious programming rules our lives, without us being aware of it.

One of the key points in your healing is, self-reflection, dissecting and analyzing all aspects. Once you have figured anything relating to your childhood past or patterns, journal them as part of your healing, which will come in handy when you work one on one with any healers or councilors.

Below, I will break it down on what some of the inner child issues are. I am certain you will either resonate to it, or it will trigger you as hell to the core. If reading this will trigger you, then know this is definitely something you need to heal.

You are looking for your Twin Flame to complete you when you should be feeling complete on your own. This is a huge burden to bestow energetically on your Twin Flame. Imagine someone else, other than your Twin Flame who will have the same expectation of you. Wouldn’t the relationship feel like it’s choking you?
Daddy issues. When you are looking for your partner to replace your father. What this means is when you are looking for your partner to parent you when a relationship is all about equality. Another issue may be when you are comparing your partner to be just like your dad, which can become burdensome for your partner.
Mommy issues. Same as above. When you are looking for your partner to replace your mother. What this means is when you are looking for your partner to mother you when a relationship is all about equality. Another issue may be when you are comparing your partner to be just like your mom, which can become burdensome for your partner as well.
Abandonment issues. Learn how to self-sooth yourself rather than depending others to lick your wounds for you. Remember this is a Soul’s journey and a solo journey. No one can walk your path. You have to face your dragons and demons on your own.
Low self-esteem. Usually occurs after remnant of a trauma, which resulted in not having full self-confidence, therefore lacking in self-love.
Feeling the need to please everyone. The journey demands for you to be authentic to the core of your Soul and this means, to come into your full power and essence.
You disliking children. This is part of a childhood trauma or subconscious blocks bleeding from past life events into your current reality. This was the case for me. I had past life trauma attached to me.
Relationship issues whether its family, friends or lovers. This is part of loving yourself and as well as the people around you. If you are happy and content, and in much higher vibration, you will attract the same energy back, resulting in better relationships with everyone.
Money issues. This stems from self-love. Money is a powerful form of having abundance in all arenas of one’s life, be it shelter, food, entertainment, luxury. Part of self-love is learning how to spend money on self and pampering. If you do not have the money to do so, this is a result of not tapping into the Universal Abundance.
Lack of self-worth usually is based on some sort of childhood trauma, which bled in adult life. Often derives from self-love.
Buddha Belly where all your trauma is stored in the Solar Plexus. Solar Plexus is about personal power and self-worth, one of the key Chakras of inner child issues. If you have stomach issues, you have inner child issues, which may be known or unknown to you.
Ancestral lineage passed down through bloodline. This is big in my list because just like how you may genetically look like your family members, parents, grandparents, aunts or uncles, same goes for ancestral trauma. Think about some of the common diseases or conditions such as mental conditions, alcoholism, cancer, heart disease, diabetes and so forth which gets passed on to generations.
Past life trauma. This is very significant as well since we all are born with Soul amnesia. When you begin to dive into your past life, you will see some of the reoccurring traumas have repeated.
Suppressed childhood trauma, known or unknown. This could be as little as your sibling not sharing a treat with you, to your parents scolding or disciplining you, to sexual abuse or death trauma.
Last but not the least, when you are in constant rut about why your Twin Flame is behaving the way they are with you. This applies to you when you are forever in this energy with your friends, family, closed social groups. In closed Twin Flame groups, what I find is a ripple effect. When one squawks on this subject, the rest follow suit. There is a deeper reason why your Twin Flame is behaving this way, which has nothing to do with relationship dynamics. If this was another connection, perhaps you should run but in a Twin Flame connection, this is for you to dig deeper into your subconscious issues, and inner child is one of them. Learn to self-sooth.

Now this brings to my next point. If you are a good child and have no such issues as mentioned in the beginning of the article, then it has to be a past life trauma. In my own case, it was past life trauma where I was burnt alive, which played out in this life as well when I was a little girl. As said before, often

until the age of seven, a child can re-visit same trauma from past life if parts of their Soul fragment was lost due to the occurrence of the trauma incurred at that time.

This is one of the most difficult block to overcome because one has to connect with their inner child by liaising with good healers who can help you access buried trauma on a much deeper level by allowing you to connect with him or her. It is up to the individual on how to begin working on the blocks. Trust me when I say, you cannot fool your inner child. There is a reason for it and your inner child will scream blue murder for your attention with your daily behaviors.

I myself was guilty of this, as I didn’t know my inner child was lacking my attention for years as well. I am absolutely in love with Disney. I have nine Thomas Kinkade Disney paintings. To me Disney is magical, “Dreams Come True.” I have their “D” logo as a tattoo. For years, I referred to myself as Princess Jasmine. None of this is random. My Higher Self and my inner child was giving me hints for years. It was during one of my Akashic Clearing, I discovered I was from Lemerian Civilization and one of my core blocks was inner child, which when expanded on past life regression, my mini me surfaced up with past life burning trauma.

As soon as I learnt about mini me, I began working with a healer. In my Shamanic healing session, during Soul Retrieval, mini me embodied me. That was a huge shift for me but I knew I must continue making progress with her. My recent one was when I bought raisins to fill my jar as I ran out. When the jar filled up, I ate the leftovers. I then re-discovered how much I love raisins. When looking for ideas on my vision board, I asked my mom what I liked as a kid.

She told me raisins were my thing, which I did not remember but I did include it in my vision board. A few months later, it aligned. In my Shamanic Practitioner Program,

a black stallion a lost power animal from childhood was restored back to me in a Shamanic journey. A Shaman retrieved it for me. As a child, I was always drawn to Black Beauty Book but never officially read it. In fact, my current vehicle is named Black Beauty. When this power animal was restored to me, I looked up everything on it. Many messages flooded in by researching on Black Stallions. Nothing is ever random in Twin Flame Journey. That is the magnificent gift for us from Divine.

How to Work On Your Inner Child Blocks

Work one on one with healers who specialize in inner child healing.
Connect with your inner child by doing daily affirmations by activating your Throat Chakra.
Create a vision board of you under the age of seven.
Daily affirmations to your inner child on how much you love them, that you are here for them now, and how you are sorry that you didn’t acknowledge them before.

Do bath exercise by performing a bath rituals with your favorite essential oils and salt. Use yellow rose for your Solar Plexus Chakra. Gather the petals after your bath and scatter the petals daily with affirmations ~ Inspired by Myrna Martin from Love Project.

Play with your favorite childhood toys.
Coloring books and puzzles.
Guided meditations on inner child trauma and healing.
Look through childhood photographs daily to connect with your mini you.
Learn to self-sooth. Be your own protector and nurturer rather than depending on someone else.
Ask your family members and relatives about how you were like as a child so that you can reconnect with some forgotten memories.
Watch kids movies especially whatever you loved as a child. Mine was Disney, Smurfs, He Man, She Ra, and Looney Tunes.
Read children’s books especially the ones you read as a child. Mine was Enid Blyton and Disney though there were many others, which I cannot remember now.
Listen to kids music. I know this sounds ridiculous but it works.
Write a Life Gratitude Journal. In this journal, you will write anything you are grateful for from the moment you were born to your current age. Start from age one and work your way up to your current age. Each year completed, write down fifteen things you are grateful for.

In my case, my future kids really helped me here as this was their demand but they knew Mommy has to deal with her mini version before they can come along in future. Trust what comes in the journey. Your Soul team is with you all the way

I hope this finds you well and now that you know what to look for, you will apply this and dig deeper than before with a healer. Trust that you will not go too far unless you began tackling your inner child. “It doesn’t know age. It is timeless. As long as you have a pulse, your mini version of you exists. Learn to connect and nurture them.”

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