How to Be In Twin Flame Union
This is the most desired outcome all Twins chase after, whether they are in physical relationship with their beloved or they have an overwhelming desire to be in one with their Twin Flame. Let me clarify that all Twin Flames are “In 5D Union” with their beloved. This is where Twin Flame experience or Twin Flame journey takes its initial birth. From there, the entire Twin Flame experience begins…
There are many misconceptions around being in Twin Flame Union, which often is confused by collectives. Before we begin diving deep into this aspect, let me clarify that being in a Twin Flame relationship does not constitutes to being in Twin Flame Union. If you are under the impression that this is the case, there’s only two ways about it. Either you are too much in your ego mode strutting your Twin Flame as your ultimate price, or you simply are unaware of the deeper Twin Flame experience behind the concept. You see, your Ego wears a social mask. It feeds off self image or wants social approval to gain control of the situation. Ego self is not really who you are. Your Soul is. In this article, I will not only debunk this false misunderstanding about Twin Flame Union, but also educate what this really means in your Twin Flame journey from a spiritual angle.
When my Twin Flame birthed this spiritual name for me, I like most thought it was based on relationship status price for simple reason being, the romance aspect is the most marketed concept within the Twin Flame community. Like most as it was meant to, my Twin Flame experience began with romance with my Twin Flame but as I embarked further into my healing process and allowed things to unfold, there was a whole other experience waiting for me, The Twin Flame Experience. In fact, not many teach about this aspect much. Teachers will only teach based on their own Twin Flame Journey experience and healing. What they do not know or experience themselves, they cannot teach which is why it is important to follow those who actually can explain in detail how to heal and grow while having amazing Twin Flame experiences. Anyone can channel romance fluff on DM (the runner Twin) and how they are healing and will return to their chaser Twin (DF). To me, this entire concept is vague because what does this even mean for the stayer Twin? What are they supposed to be doing meanwhile when their Twin Flame is running? I will expand further in my next article on this subject alone.
I am in a Twin Flame Union
You have no idea how many times people will join Facebook groups or open up their YouTube Channel to promote their Twin Flame relationship by labeling it as being in Twin Flame Union. While there’s some who genuinely are looking for Twin Flame guidance, there’s majority who are only parading their Twin Flame relationship as a prize trophy. Unfortunately, the community has over emphasized on the romance angle of the Twin Flame experience so many feed off that idea thinking that if they are in Twin Flame relationship, then they have attained the ultimate prize. “The ultimate prize is the Twin Flame experience, not physical union with your Twin Flame.”
Those who are reading this and are here, you may get triggered reading this part but stay with me as I will explain why this is only ego based concept. Twin Flame relationships uses closeness and distances to trigger deeper layer wounds to heal on a subconscious and conscious level. For those who are in Twin Flame relationship, your Souls chose to use closeness to trigger your healing. Sorry to disclose this to you but there is no prize reward on this.
Those who understand the deeper layer of this in their Twin Flame experience know this aspect is true because during their relationship, so many things often surface up for both Twins to heal. It’s a constant yoyo of emotions. Those who are in a relationship will be the first ones to tell you that not all is amazing in their perfect paradise. If both Twins are not diving deep into their healing process and unclogging the drain, there is a chance for one of the Twin to bolt. Not even the sanctuary of marriage or kids can keep the other Twin from bolting.
Personally, I will rather deal with unclogging my drain alone rather than in a relationship with my Twin Flame. The experience is more excruciating because now suddenly you have the pressure of keeping your relationship afloat and as well as deal with societal and cultural stress. There are no guarantees that your romance of a lifetime with your beloved will result in happily ever after if both come in physical union prematurely. The reason being, your Higher Selves are riding the chariot, not you and they do not work off ego-based desire, aka romance with Twin Flame.
The entire ambition for your Higher Selves is to become in Soul oneness. The entire Twin Flame experience is to become one within oneself, which may very well result in becoming in oneness with your Twin Flame.
It is not the other way around. The whole point of your Twin Flame journey is to become who you were always meant to be in your true authentic version of Divine Being. Your Twin Flame is a catalyst to ensuring you are staying on course with your Soul’s life script and Soul’s journey, and your Higher Self is ensuring this is the case with your Twin Flame as well. There is no such thing as you only doing the work and that they are doing nothing. What they are doing or not doing in physical reality is still part of their Soul plan and they are living out their Soul script. Those who think otherwise is basing it on their fear and lack of trust or faith in their journey and Higher Self.
Detachment from My Twin Flame
Detachment from your Twin Flame is based out of ego. Remember your Soul does not know ego so even your real life scenario with your Twin Flame is being played out as per your Soul agreement. This is lower 3D vibrational based emotion often stemming from fear and lack of commitment to yourself. When it comes to your Soul lessons, your Higher Self will not override your ego based concepts or desires.
You cannot base your Twin Flame Journey and Twin Flame experiences out of not being energetically connected to your Twin Flame. It’s a package deal that both Higher Selves orchestrated for both Souls to grow, heal and learn lessons. If you are one of those who thinks you can detach, let me tell you that it will never work. Your Souls will ensure this to your grave. “The more you resist, the more your Higher Selves will persist.” Think about it for a second, if you are so hell bound to forget your Twin Flame that is if you are in a true Twin Flame connection, did it work so far? I can bet my money on this that it actually is more excruciating to resist the connection rather than to remain on course with it.
What you can do is detach from the outcome, which is altogether a different outlook towards the connection. By detaching from the outcome, the entire focus now is being shifted from them to you. In this state, you are worrying less regarding what your Twin is or isn’t doing and focusing on your life and what you need to do to get it kick started into the next phase. During this shift, you learn to simply be enough. You are on the path to become complete again into Soul oneness with self.
Detachment from the outcome shifts the focus on you, rather than detachment from your Twin, which will backfire anyway.
What is Twin Flame Union?
Many believe in order to attain Twin Flame Union; one must be in physical union with their Twin Flame; as explained in the beginning of this article is not the same. In order for the outer union to manifest fully, one must attain Twin Flame Union within oneself. Twin Flame Union is all about your inner self-mastery, as within so without. In order for it to reflect on the outer reality, one must heal inwards.
In order to attain inner union, you are not dependent on the physical relationship with your Twin Flame.- You are at bliss in whatever circumstances you are currently in with your Twin Flame. If you are getting triggered for them to be with a Karmic, there’s deeper layers of healing to do through your Twin mirroring this back to you.
- You are not looking outside of you to make you happy. You have learnt to love yourself unconditionally by simply being good enough in all aspects of your life.
- You have balanced your inner Feminine and Masculine energy.
- You are okay with your Twin Flame not being in a physical relationship with you.
- You have restored all matters of your life in order be it career, finances, independence, health, kids, Twin Flame mission and so forth. I have personally come across many collectives who are waiting for their Twin Flame to come into picture in order to begin their Twin Flame mission. In my case, I personally encountered my own Twin Flame energetically supporting me time after time in my own mission work to the Twin Flame collectives so this is again a fear-based misconception. Being in any codependency situation misdirects the 5D vibrational alignment. Being in a spiritual journey demands abundance in all aspects of one’s life.
- You have become your Soul’s authentic version. For this to occur, you have to transform using the 12 Stages of Spiritual Alchemy, from lead of ego consciousness to gold consciousness.
- You have made your Heaven on Earth experience as your Twin Flame experience with or without your Twin Flame.
- In order for your Twin Flame Union (Divine Partnership – Twin Flame Union) to anchor in reality, you have to become the same vibrational match as your Twin Flame.
As you can see, there is more that meets the eye when it comes to Twin Flame Union. Next time someone is talking about being in Twin Flame Union with their beloved, feel free to enlighten them with a logical spiritual explanation. Your relationship with your Twin Flame is just as sacred and as important as anyone else’s. Anyone can master being in a relationship. Even Karmic connections have explosive romance in the initial bubble up phases. People often forget those initial phases due to heavy Karmic learnt Soul lessons, which resulted in ending of their Soul agreement.
You can never go wrong by simply focusing in you and your growth. Love yourself unconditionally and become good enough. You are simply worth it. I hope this article finds you well. If you wish to purchase any of my services, click here. Feel free to share this article if it resonates. Thank you and much blessings.
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