Merge Process in Twin Flame Journey

This article is geared for collectives who are in the advanced Alchemical Process of their Twin Flame journey. Those who feel this is not where you are do not despair for you are heading this way, so long as you are focusing on your ascension process and Twin Flame path, rather than your Twin Flame. While the awakening is geared initially around romance, you know by now that this is not the main focal point of the Twin Flame journey. The whole idea of the awakening is for you to shift your paradigms from 3D consciousness to 5D consciousness. It’s a state of being in, not 3D is here on earth and 5D is heaven. You are called to make your Heaven on Earth in this lifetime.

For the Twins who are in the cusp of inner union, not Twin Flame relationship, go through a massive merge process. The physical union may be the case in future. I myself haven’t found much article on this so I wouldn’t be surprised if I am from the few who will be talking about these experiences. This is based on my own experiences in my Twin Flame journey and gathering some signs and syncs from others who are in the same Twin Flame ascension path.

What I noticed for those who are in the advanced part of their healing, they encounter many miracles. One of them is a major transformation within their body. It is the story of The Curious Case of Benjamin Button, instead of the real Twin Flame Brad Pitt; it is the rest of Twin Flames. What I am trying to say is the reverse of aging process. Doing deep inner Soul work to transform not only the Soul, but also the vessel the Soul resides in, our physical body. Below are some indicators when you are transforming and healing on a deeper level.

Physical Signs

Buddha Belly – No it is not a myth that during whole ascension process, Buddha’s belly got huge to accommodate his light body. During ascension, energy is downloaded and distributed to every cell of the body, allowing for the preparation of the light body formation. In this process, the mid drift and waistline, unfortunately gets the most torque since this represents the power center, Solar Plexus Chakra.
Skin complexion will get lighter in color. In my case, I have gotten a few shades lighter than what my actual skin color was. I had to switch to a lighter shade of foundation coverage in order to not look so orange. Trust me when I say, I used the same color of MAC foundation for eons until now. This is how drastically you will notice the difference. I had to lose 16 colors of lipstick shades as they looked too goth on me, with my skin turning lighter.
Your skin will feel luminous as if you have come off a spa. During the purging days, don’t get me wrong, you will look like death just before a major breakthrough, but as you release the toxins off your Soul and body, you will notice how amazing your skin looks.
You will reverse your age. Before you know it, people will begin to comment you on how you look younger and younger. You can compare your older photos to see the difference as well.
You will notice people are drawn to you like a magnet, even strangers walking on the street. People will go above and beyond to do something for you. Just not so long ago, a lady ended up buying dish washing soap for me at the grocery till when my soap somehow ended up in her pile, when the cashier realized it is not hers. I don’t blush easily and the gesture truly blew me away. Another time a woman saw me walking to my vehicle along the curb but she didn’t know my vehicle was not too far away. She stopped her vehicle to ask if I wanted a ride somewhere. I have many stories like this.
Your manifestation mode will be in full throttle. You will find you are able to manifest things you normally didn’t have the power to do so.

What is Merge Process?

These are now some physical signs we discussed. Now let’s dig into the signs of merge process and what this looks like in physical reality. This process I am referring to is when you begin to merge with your Twin’s energy on a deeper level which allows you to see and experience it in physical reality. This happens to those who are in the advanced level of their Soul’s Alchemical Process. Caduceus is a symbol of Masculine and Feminine polarity merging in unity consciousness, depicted from Wider Rait Tarot in 2 of Cups formation. The interchanging and entwined Alchemical Process is a wonder.

Some Signs for Merge

You automatically begin to adapt their lifestyle. An example of this is a couple I know who are Twin Flames. Towards the end of their separation phase, she began having few social drinks in social settings when she was not into alcohol. Her Twin enjoyed a few drinks in social settings. She began hitting the casinos, which he also loved doing occasionally.
If your Twin Flame has a different dialect than you, don’t be surprised if you begin to automatically adapt this foreign dialect. In my case, I speak Hindi but lately I have been automatically speaking Punjabi. This is my Twin’s dialect. Though I was married to a Punjabi for 14 years, not once we spoke in Punjabi. In one minute of meeting my Twin in physical, he said one whole sentence to me in Punjabi. It is so baffling to me these days on how I am able to watch Punjabi movies on Netflix. Though they have subtitles, I usually find they are not accurate in translation, something I have confirmed with my Punjabi friends.
You will begin to adapt their ethnic food. Because I was married to a Punjabi and grew up with them all my life, I was already exposed to their culture and ethnic food, but I didn’t crave their food like I do these days. Every couple of days, I begin to get this intense urge or craving to eat their cuisine. I start going crazy if I don’t get my fix. You have no idea how crazy this sounds even to me. I found I am less drawn to my Indian Cuisine and more Punjabi. Plain yogurt was not in my diet. I could never eat this before but these days, I can. People around me tease me on this. A traditional Punjabi loves their parathas, yogurt and Indian pickles, and this apparently is my go to meal these days. Do not ask how?
You will be drawn to their culture and religion, especially if this differs from yours. You will begin seeing signs of whatever religion they follow, for example in my case, I have been seeing Waheguru (Sikh God) as signs all over the place. Signs can be shown to you via a form of symbol or the word.
You will be constantly bombarded with signs and syncs regarding them. It could be their names, initials, place where they live etc. Names and initials I saw from the beginning of my connection with him but what is baffling is how I constantly see Abbotsford in my day to day life. He lives in this city. Before I met him, I stepped into their soil for the first time in my life during Tulip Festival, 2 weeks prior to his arrival in my life. This City had no significance in my life before. I didn’t hear about it either on my day to day life. What baffles me these days is the way this comes to me with record speed. Apparently, I only liked Golden Valley eggs that is from a farm in Abbotsford. I didn’t make the connection until recently. For years until they stop producing it, I loved their jams, which didn’t contain any added sugar.
Your eye color will change to your Twin Flame’s eye color. This is true. I heard so many claim this. The reason for this is because, you are becoming them and they are becoming you.
You will extract their spiritual gifts, especially if they are not stepping into their mission and you are. This is rare but in my case, it did happen as well. The other Twin can experience their spiritual gifts blasting open from your spiritual healing as well. I have heard of stories on this as well. This happens because both of you are energetically tethered to each other so strongly. As I mentioned, you are they and they are you.

People around me have begun questioning me if I am pregnant and I do feel there is an explanation to this. I am birthing my inner union, which may result in physical reunion. Time will tell…

We talked about what are some of the greater aspects of healing and how this can change your day to day reality in a very significant way. Attaining this is not easy and neither is getting to inner union. Being in this state requires hard work and determination, not to mention your own commitment to your Twin Flame and yourself. This is a solo journey and you must walk it alone. Below are some blocks to look into as you begin healing in all these areas. Make no doubt that these are your obstacles in your Twin Flame connection.

Twin Flame Blocks

Past life trauma. This could be with your Twin Flame or when you were not incarnated in the same lifetime with them. Past life work will show what traumas are with your Twin Flame and which ones are not.
Traumas of this life. This could be known or unknown to you.
Inner childhood wounding. This could be known or unknown to you.
Finances are a major block. Money is about self love. When you love yourself enough, you will give yourself all abundance in all aspects.
Self esteem issues is related to inner child wounding. When people are not content with the way they look, it is because something is lacking within them. When you love yourself enough, you invest in yourself.
Spiritual blocks with Source. This is usually a trauma from previous lifetime. A common trauma is when you were punished for being spiritual. Another common one is forced childhood programing by parents.
Spiritual blocks with your guides. This happens when you are not trusting the Universe or your Guides to help you. You are too much in your ego state to see them to aid you in your spiritual journey.
Blaming your Twin Flame for your unhappiness. This stems from inner child wounding when you are looking for someone else outside of you to make you happy.
Depending on your Twin for happiness and fulfillment. This is a large burden you are inflicting on your Twin Flame. Think about it.
Blaming your Twin Flame that they are not awaken to the journey or that you are more spiritual than they are. This is one of the biggest misconception some Twin Flames have. They are doing what they need to do. Question you should be asking yourself is, are YOU?
Blaming your Twin for not doing the inner work, and how you are only doing it.
Believing that you are doing inner work only by working on conscious problems when you really need to look into subconscious issues as well.
Not balancing the female and male polarities, which is embodying the inner union. Not coming into self union from within.
Obsessing over why you are in separation with your Twin when you should be busy doing inner Soul Alchemy.
Obsessing with the outcome rather than focusing on yourself. Your drive should be focused on clearing blocks, not worrying why you are still not in union with your Twin Flame.
Giving ultimatums to your Twin or giving ultimatums to your journey time frames. You cannot take a magic wand and make things shift. Doing inner Soul work is the key.
Not clearing energetic blocks by daily grounding yourself and your energy. By doing this, you automatically create a protection vacuum against negativity and non-positive thoughts. Try it to believe!
Blaming others for your misery. Remember, you are a powerful manifesting machine. You are a creator of your own reality.
Depending on others to do your inner work when you should be doing it yourself. There are no shortcuts to the journey. For an example, getting healers to remove black magic, negative energy, casting spells etc.
Not asking your Guides to help you. Remember, you need to ask in order to receive.
Not being open to receive guidance when it comes to you by your Guides or the Universe.

If you are not in advanced stage of your Twin Flame journey, by reading this, I pray that this motivates you to begin making some changes. What you change, you create. Hope this article finds you well. If you wish to purchase any of my services, click here. Feel free to share this article if it resonates. Thank you and much blessings.

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