Obsession With Your Twin Flame

If you have clicked on this article, pat yourself in the back for being brave enough to read through this. You are on the right track. This article may trigger you in many areas as you read along, but my main objective is to make you see things through a higher perspective rather than giving you some truth bombs, which may be the case anyway. Look at it as a positive advice to get you to move further along in your Twin Flame path.

Let’s face it, somewhere along your Twin Flame connection, you have obsessed over your Twin Flame in some shape or form. Be it stalking them on Social Media, getting readers or psychics to check your connection status, looking for validation on YouTube readings and so forth. Trust me, everyone has been there and there is nothing wrong with this. There is a much higher purpose to all of this and if you stay to the end of the article, you will learn the why and how.

Sign and Syncs Regarding your Twin Flame

The only reason why you are getting bombarded with number sequences, specific signs regarding your Twin Flame Connection is to have you stay on course with your Twin Flame journey. The Universe constantly validating this is only part of it. What you should be doing is, logging these in your journal whether electronically, on your cell phone notes or simply writing on a journal. Things may not make sense to you at the time you see them, but as you embark further in your spiritual ascension path, you will realize yourself or your Higher Self will reveal to you why you were seeing them. By just waiting for the signs to occur and simply going into frantic disarray on those is not the only purpose why it’s been shown to you. It means you dive deeper into your healing. These are additional messages from your Higher Self and your Twin Flame’s Higher Self on what areas you need to focus on, that is all.

You will notice in the beginning stages of your journey, these signs will be triggering you as hell because despite all these signs, there is no action when it comes to your Twin Flame relationship dynamics. Your Twin Flame is still ignoring you. As you begin healing in areas of your life, you will notice automatically that these signs continue showing up, but the trigger mechanism has lessened, which is the biggest clue indicating you that you are on the right track of your journey.

Twin Flame Alter

Now don’t get me started on this one. Rather than having a spiritual alter by placing your intention with higher being such as your Ascended Masters guiding your Twin Flame Journey, you have placed your Twin Flame here. The hero and Godly worship. If you are one of those, in a true Divine Partnership or Connection, this will never work. Idolizing your Twin Flame is a form of placing them on a pedestal above you. The journey demands an equal energetic partnership in all shapes and forms. They are not your better half; they are your other half. There is a huge difference. The entire purpose of this journey is to make you a better version of you, the way you were meant to be by your Divine Right, in coming to your true self, an authentic version of you. Coming into your own Twin Flame Union also known as coming home to you. As you can see, this has nothing to do with your Twin Flame. They were a catalyst, initiated by romance to transform you from ego lead of consciousness to Gold consciousness by getting you to make a multi-dimensional leap in the paradigm shift.

Magic Spells and Sigils

Sigils are types of symbols used in magic. In medieval ceremonial magic, the term sigil was commonly used to refer to occult signs which represented various angels and demons which the magician might summon. ~ Wikipedia

Here we go, get your popcorn ready because now it gets better. In a true Twin Flame Connection, any sort of magic, manipulation tactics, witchcraft and sigils do not work. Let this part be very clear to you. If for some reason you did achieve this, then you are not in a true Twin Flame Connection. Wouldn’t you want your Twin Flame to come to you in their “free will” rather than “your will?” Anyone offering you these ways to attain a psychical relationship with your Twin Flame, aka dangling the juicy carrot in front you and charging you heaps of money, is a waste of your time and money. The whole point of this journey is to do inner healing and inner work. There is no magic portions and lotions, no hocus pocus, no poof or woof. Sorry to disappoint you. Your Higher Selves designed this to the perfection in order for you to get into Soul Alchemy. The sooner you dive into the real Soul Alchemy, the sooner this journey will become less antagonizing for you. Your Higher Self will not rest until you do so. This is when you actually surrender to your Twin Flame path, your inner Twin Flame Union.

Psychic Readings

Don’t get me wrong, they are still helpful and at different stages of your connection and journey, you will seek the direction, which is absolutely needed. Do your research on known readers as supposed to getting anyone to tap into your connection, especially the free ones being offered. You have no idea how many times I get feedbacks on how bad those readings went. Just because it is free does not mean it is in your highest good.

Having said this, if you are one of those who is constantly tapping into your connection via various types of readers and psychic, and doing zero healing, then you are in obsession mode. You are not trusting the process of this connection and what the Universe and your Guides are forever conveying to you.

If you are also one of those who waste hours on YouTube readings which may or may not apply to you rather than diving into your inner healing, you will eventually realize that this a colossal waste of your time and energy. Before you know it, you have wasted precious year(s). You better off doing a free guided meditation rather than be here. It will not work. Also, I want to add, energy is fluid. Pay for a personal reading from a reader you are drawn to and get real messages rather than be a Freebie Sally. Invest some money in yourself. “You get what you pay for” does apply as a Universal Law. It spares no one unfortunately…

Freebie Sally

This now brings me to the next topic. Don’t get me wrong, we all love free stuff, but some collectives have this notion that just because they are in a spiritual journey, it is their God Given Birthright to get everything for free. If you cannot spend a dime in your own spiritual journey, then it is a money block you need to heal on. This is the same concept of getting an education. You still had to pay for it to attain it. While there are free things offered by those who have stepped into their spiritual mission, you still have to understand that so much of their own time, money and energy is spent to deliver this to you, not to mention they have to pay their own bills.

Until you learn to appreciate this equal energy exchange, you will not get the full benefit from it. A perfect example I will give is this healer I wanted to go to. Her pricings were in the expensive side, but my Higher Self knew she was the one. I placed the intention out to the Universe that if I am meant to get healing from this healer, the Universe will open the gateway to afford it. Sure enough, it was one of the best healing I received. Her general YouTube guided meditation did not do the same magic as getting a one on one healing from her. My advice to you is that, if you cannot afford it, then set the intention and allow the Universe to carve the way. Meanwhile continue with the freebies offered. If your intentions are pure, you will reap the rewards of it. Remember, you cannot trick your Higher Self in this case at all.

In a nutshell, if you cannot afford it, then make room for the money to flow in. Give up on certain luxury you can live without. Save up for it. Manifest the money using Law of Attraction techniques. If there is a will, there is a way, make no doubt on this.

Checking Up On Your Twin Flame

This will trigger the hell out of you. And if it does, know I have hit an area for you to heal upon. “Just because you are in a Twin Flame Path, and you have a Twin Flame does not give you any right to force any romantic outcome from your Twin Flame, period!” They are their own person, and this means they have their own life lessons and spiritual awakening to endure. Leave them be and focus inwards on yourself. By you shifting your state of being in, you will propel them to do the same as well. They will meet you energetically halfway. This is the way this dynamic is designed. By you constantly checking up on your Twin Flame, be it Social Media, stalking their neighborhood etc will not get you anywhere. If you are in this frame of mind, the higher purpose to all this is so that you dive deeper into your healing. Most often they are subconscious blocks.

The more frantically you chase them energetically, the faster you will find they are running away from you. By letting go of the outcome, which is one of the hardest subconscious blocks, you allow the connection and the Universe to work for you rather than against you.

Best example I can give you is, lets supposed you order food in a restaurant. After placing your food, you begin hounding the cook and the waiter to bring your food rather than waiting patiently for the scrumptious food to arrive. By hounding the waiter, you can expect the waiter to get irritated enough to sabotage the food in some shape or form. Another analogy is when you have placed your hours at work or your business, then you are waiting for the pay. By hounding the boss or the client, your pay will not come any faster. In fact, you may lose your job or respect as a business owner by hounding them for money. Make sense?

Your Twin Flame’s Karmic

If this is your dynamics with your Twin Flame, then know that this is what your Soul chose as lessons to be integrated. All three of you before birthing decided upon this type of dynamic duo, so no point holding any anger or resentment. This could also very well be something from your past life stemming into your current reality, an unfinished business perhaps…By bashing and blaming your Twin Flame’s Karmic partner will not get you anywhere with your Twin Flame or the relationship you crave the most. You need to allow their situation to unfold naturally while they both get their lessons integrated. Constant interference or simply meddling into their situation whether physically or energetically is a no…no! Why would you want to be their third wheel? Have enough self-respect for yourself to walk away graciously and allow what is meant to happen.

This does not mean you should retaliate and allow yourself on dating sites, looking for a quickie either. If someone comes along your way organically, then go with the flow instead of forcing the situation as well. Observing this scenario, I always found that the stayer Twin ends up with the same dynamics again in another connection. The reason being is that history will keep repeating these scenarios like a broken record, all orchestrated by your Higher Self, until you learn the lessons it is teaching you, to heal those subconscious and conscious blocks.

Your Own Healing

This is a false misconception that you are only healing, and your Twin Flame isn’t. How can you be so sure? This is not your business what they are, or what they not doing. Your energy should only be towards your life and its journey. Having your own healing time is precious, especially if you are single. Imagine those Twins who have to heal while constantly triggering each other in a relationship. Their journey is not as easy as you consider it to be. The only difference is that their Soul Contract chose those dynamics rather than physical separation to address their core wounds and blocks. Those who parade their Twin Flame romantic union are still healing, so know they haven’t achieved any forbidden fruit or prize. Next time ask those collectives how they reached inner union or how they achieved their Twin Flame Union. Chances are, they would not be able to give you a straight answer. The reason being, they themselves are integrating many journey lessons, same as you. Twin Flame Healing is an ongoing saga, no matter where you are along in your relationship with your own Twin Flame.

Some of you are thinking of being a healer as per your Divine Mission. This is as per your higher calling and you should adhere to it as best as you possibly can. There is no rush timeline to this. My best advice is for you is to allow the mission to unfold organically and trust the process. You will know what this is when the time is right as per your Higher Self. Meanwhile, concentrate on your healing. The more you heal on a deeper level, the more your own spiritual gifts will emerge automatically. It took me intense self-healing with many healers for year and half before my healing abilities emerged. I still did not rush into it by offering it straight away to the collectives. Do your research on the healers, as you do not want their wounding and trauma to reflect in your healing. Healing is an ongoing process even for the most prominent healers. Those healers who spend a fortune on themselves and are the ones you want to heal you. One of the biggest mistakes collectives make is that they are too busy getting all sorts of healing certifications, while not focusing on their own healing.

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