Support From Family And Friends - Twin Flames
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Do you often find yourself struggling to explain to your friends and family regarding your Twin Flame experience or Twin Flame connection? Have you noticed on how your friends and family all of a sudden disappear without not knowing why?
In this article, you will learn how to overcome some of the guilt and shame of being on a Twin Flame journey along with your Twin Flame’s behaviors, and how others perceive the whole experience for you.
If you are on a spiritual journey living a Twin Flame experience, you must have noticed how others respond to your awakening process, life lessons, healing and gifts. Firstly, you must have noticed that they have a hard time understanding your connection, which started it all. You will find that they cannot relate to your spiritual experiences nor the romantic aspect of your Twin Flame connection.
While this can be extremely frustrating, through this article, you will learn the higher meaning of what is happening to you and how to navigate the challenges without creating too much drama within other relationships. Do not get me wrong, friends and family can be precious but they can also hinder your spiritual experience if you allow them to.
Connection With Your Twin Flame
After dealing with Twin Flames for more than 4 years, I find that this is the most hardest aspect of their journey. Not only they have to put up with their Twin Flame’s behavioral issues, their ghosting, karmic partners, they often find themselves having to explain their connection dynamics to friends and family.
This is not only exclusive to the stayer Twin Flame, but also the runner Twin Flame. Even though the other Twin Flame is running away from the connection, they still cannot forget their soul counterpart. Friends and family of the Divine Masculine’s also throw doubt and fear that things will not work out with them.
Both Twin Flames gets to hear, “Maybe he/she is not your person and that you should move on. By you hanging on to them, you are losing out to other potential suiters. What if they have moved on, but you are still strung on them?” Does this sound familiar.
I call these experiences as little tests that the Universe throws along the way to overcome some of the issues around doubt, fear, guilt and shame. You will notice that those who tend to lecture you do not have the most amazing life themselves. Even if their intention is at your best interest, no one has a right over deciding what soul lessons and experiences you should endeavor. They do not get to live your life, you do.
Part of having your paradigm shift is to break free from all barriers of cultural laws, societal laws, religious laws that do not serve your soul purpose and most importantly law of karma. What soul contract you signed upon is simply your business with your Twin Flame and others such as karmic partners.
If your soul agreement is to be with your Twin Flame, simply know that no one can override this for you. This applies to both runner and the stayer Twins. If their soul agreement is to birth Twin Flame children, then nothing can prevent this from happening either.
Part of your journey lessons is to trust all Divine process and know that whatever is in store for you is meant to be aiding you for your highest and greatest goods.
Friends And Family
We spoke about the lack of support Twin Flames receive in their connection regarding their Twin Flame, be it the runner or the chaser. Not all members of your family and your friends will understand your entire journey, but then they simply are not meant to. They are not meant to understand your journey because they are not living a Twin Flame experience. You are!
It is best to discern who you find is supportive in regards to your awakening and ascension process. You will have a very good idea who can give you encouragement and who will discourage you.
It is also important to know that what you exuviate in your outer being in regards to your connection will also become a reflection on how others will perceive you.
What this means is that if you are constantly complaining about your connection and how your Twin Flame is treating you, it will be a natural thing from out of their concern to you, that they will be advising you to move on. This is where you cannot bluff your own inner reality, your own inner dragons and demons.
If you are living the life of your dreams, and content with living in the moment of, it will reflect on the outer reality. Remember that your Twin Flame can energetically feel you as well which means they will know whether you are living your life authentically in the highest vibration.
For those who have noticed how people perceive you positively based on your elevated consciousness, simply understand that you are on the right path to your ascension process and your life purpose. If you notice compliments on your accomplishments from your family and friends, know you have their support and that you are indeed on the right path to mastering the journey.
If you are working hard on your advancement, people will notice it around you, and that is a positive thing.
If you were not getting along with certain members of your family or had a misunderstanding with a friend, part of the journey lessons is to heal all aspects of any relationship. These are lower 3D paradigm issues, which do not serve in the higher dimensional shifts.
Finding Your Tribe
This is the fun part about the journey when you begin to discover likeminded souls who become part of your soul’s journey during a duration. Whether it becomes a short-term connection or it becomes a permanent connection, there is a higher purpose why you meet them during different junctures of your soul’s journey.
Some great examples of when you meet likeminded souls who are in the same Twin Flame journey as you can be through your friend’s circle or gathering of some kind. Even Social Media Platforms are an excellent way to make new friends. You find yourself connecting with them instantly through similar journey experiences, ascension process or stories of similar Twin Flame connection scenarios. You begin to resonate to each other’s joy and griefs.
This part of the journey is meant to provide you support so that you do not feel so alone. Slowly as you ascend to higher consciousness, you will feel less drawn to people and things that no longer serve you. At different placements in your soul’s path, you come across different people, phases and things to serve you in different junctions of your soul’s experience. Others will teach you lessons so that you anchor a higher learning. All these are part of your soul’s desire to seek learning and to gain specific experiences.
Your Twin Flame
Even though you are romantically entwined with your Twin Flame, your Twin Flame is still part of tribe. You both can have same individuals as part of your soul tribe due to the strong spiritual bond you both share with each other. Because you both have same energetic blueprint, do not be surprised if someone will belong to your soul tribe that is known to him or her, or is dear to him or her.
When my Twin Flame’s Mom came into my dream, I knew right away that this means huge when it comes to our soul tribe. As part of our soul tribe, my Twin’s Mom plays a pivotal role in our own soul connection.
As I mentioned earlier, when it comes to your Twin Flame connection, do not be surprised if your family or friends do not understand your connection. They are simply not meant to understand how you both work as catalyst to your ascension processes and soul growth.
This is not exclusive to only Divine Feminine. Divine Masculine also get outside challenges in explaining their energetic connection regarding their beloved. Even though their behavior is erratically deranged to their Divine Feminine, unbelievably, they are just as madly in love with you as you are with them.
Majority of their behavior derives from fear, abandonment issues, inner child issues and past life traumas.
When it comes to my own connection with my Twin Flame, I personally do not allow anyone to interfere in my connection, life purpose or soul mission. They are not living my soul experience, I am.
You should have the same outlook. Your soul knows what is in store for you in the future and what is best for you. Best is to surrender to your soul and to allow it to lead you the way. You can never go wrong in following your soul’s desire.
Spiritual Gifts And Your Soul Mission
When it comes to your spiritual mission and life purpose, you will encounter challenges from your friends and family regarding your spirituality and gifts. Most Twin Flames obtain their spiritual powers and gifts during their soul awakening. Because your spiritual gifts did not form from childhood, you will discover that people will have a hard time accepting the new you. Do not be surprised if you are receiving ridiculed remarks on some of the spiritual powers you suddenly inherited.
Best thing you can do is not to become discouraged. You have to allow changes to take place. The only way you will excel in your spiritual gifts and mission work is by focusing on your spiritual gifts, and by allowing your gifts to serve the world as it was meant to.
Simply know that all lightworkers had to face similar challenges, and yet continued to persevere through their challenges so that they could serve. If you are guided to be a lightworker, then embrace your gifts rather than be influenced in suppressing them.
If people are not being supportive during the initial takeoff, then they are not meant to. If they are meant to come around as you evolve with your gifts, then it is a bonus, but know it does not have to. You are enough on your own. You will be enough on your own. You have the whole lifeforce energies around you, along with your guidance team.
Universe
Which now brings me to the next lesson. As part of paradigm shift, The Universe will remove people and things from your vibrational frequencies so that you continue to ascend to a higher elevation. The Universe also does this so that you can serve your mission work without any negative interferences. There is a reason for this. The Universe does not want anyone to hinder your ascension process, which is the biggest aspect of your soul’s journey, the most important soul mission.
If you are meant to become a lightworker, there will be no outside forces that will prevent you from becoming one. Not even your Twin Flame will oppose to your mission work. People who are near and dear to them will not either. You are in a most pure spiritual connection and because your mission work is as noble as your connection, outside forces will not be able to hinder your work and your soul purpose.
Those who feel that there are outside forces who are hindering your growth, you have to figure out what lessons it is teaching you around fear and lack of faith. No, there is no such thing as any dark forces preventing you from achieving what you were always destined to achieve.
Your Twin Flame Ignoring You
This could actually serve a higher purpose when it comes to your spiritual mission and life purpose. When you are both in separation phase of your relationship, both Twin Flames are meant to find themselves individually, and then find themselves together.
The journey is designed this way so that you utilize this alone time into becoming what you were always meant to become.
If your Twin Flame has distanced themselves from you, you have to give them their space to find themselves. You will also have to create healthy boundaries so that their ignorant behavior is not hindering your growth in any way.
Your Twin Flame’s distant behavior does not define your worth, you do. If they are remaining aloof to you, then it only means that you have not given enough attention to your inner self. Go within and seek how else you can tend to your inner child. What part of your inner being is still detached from the whole new you.
I know it seems pretty direct on the way I placed this scenario, but think about it logically for a second. Why will you give energy to someone who is not seeing your worth? What does it matter? What should matter is how you see your worth. A high profile being will always attract a high profile relationship. It is Law of Attraction. Whether it is your Twin Flame or even better remains to be seen.
Bottom underlying teachings through various sceneries are meant to guide you through discerning what is good for you and what is not serving your higher goods. You are a spiritual being living a Twin Flame experience. What is meant for you by your Divine Right will not steer away from you.
You are worth living the best possible life you envisioned it to be. You should live your life proudly and not allow anything or anyone to influence you in any way that is not aligned to you.
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Know your journey, know your connection.
Twin Flame Union
