Twin Flame Blocks Keeping You Apart
Twin Flame blocks, why and what are keeping Twin Flames apart? Sounds like an interesting topic but as you read more on the blocks, you will be astonished on some of the patterns and cycles running home to your own connection.
Not only you deal with blocks in your own connection, you also hear about similar experiences and patterns others endure within the Twin Flame community regarding their beloved. Same regurgitated patterns and stories become a vicious cycles with slight different scenarios.
Is this works of your higher self or is it simply just the works of fate? Are the cycles and patterns going to make another turn or will you forever be stuck in the same loop? Whether you are in physical relationship with your beloved, whether you met them yet or not, whether they are in embodiment or not, whether you are in separation with them or not, it doesn’t matter what your current relationship dynamics is with your Twin Flame, be assured that the blocks run as obstacles.
In this article, I will break it down as to why this is happening to you and how you will be able to break this cycle through your healing.
Let’s face it, if you were dealing with someone normal, not your Twin Flame, you would have already given up by now but the fact that you are here reading this article should give you a strong indication that you are willing to find an explanation to your predicaments.
When your Twin Flame shows you signs of not being emotionally available, through the mirror effect, learn what is lacking within you that needs to be healed. For more reading on Twin Flame mirroring, you can read my article here.
I always taught this that your Twin Flame is your biggest teacher in your soul’s journey. “You do not attract what you want. You attract what you are.”
Dealing with various clients and through my own healing, I saw a pattern of blocks, which is leading me to list them in this article. I categorized them based on conscious, subconscious and unconscious blocks to get the most of your healing modalities. Most Twin Flames only focus on conscious blocks, as this is the most apparent one on a surface level. While going through the article, you will gain a better insight on how it applies and plays in your soul’s journey.
Conscious Blocks and Patterns
As mentioned earlier, most Twin Flames are focused on the most apparent triggers of their healing. Even most Twin Flame Teachers focus on the apparent part on what to heal because they themselves have not touched their own healing so in-depth. Teachers can only teach based on their own healing breakthroughs. They can only teach based on their own evolvement and growth through their own soul’s journey.
Your Twin Flame teaches you through their behaviors towards you to dive deeper into your healing which also means to focus on the aspects I will be elaborating.
Conscious blocks and patterns develop through your awareness. You are aware of them and know about them. You know that the patterns and blocks exists within you to heal and grow. Conscious blocks and patterns typically develop during one’s childhood and carry on to adulthood.
Below are some of the breakdowns to help you understand it a bit better. These blocks and patterns are not only exclusive to the categories mentioned. Remember, these all can be interconnected with the other. You will only know your full story once you begin to truly understand the trauma and patterns from within the categories mentioned.
Feeling Unlovable – Lacking the ability to love yourself completely. Looking outside of yourself for your soul satisfaction and love vs looking within to complete you. You see, externally nothing will bring completeness through the void within you. If you are expecting completeness through something or someone, you will continue to live with that void.- Deserving Love – This often stems from your childhood especially if you had instability or lack of constant love from your primary caregivers such as parents or grandparents. Usually this proves to run a massive impact on how you particularly respond to relationships as an adult. This then leads in patterns of anxious attachments towards romantic relationships, including your Twin Flame.
- Belief That Everyone Leaves You – “If I love someone, they will leave me.” Does this belief sound familiar to you. This usually stems from early childhood when a parent has deserted you. The inner child tends to psychologically blame themselves for the parent(s) deserting them; perhaps they believed that their parents did not love them enough to be with them, or to take them along with them.
- Afraid of Being Hurt – This is known as avoidant, which is typically a result of family dysfunction and emotional manipulation in childhood especially if your parents were emotionally unavailable or made intense love emotions manipulative or coercive. This usually develops into avoidant attachment styles where one develops intense emotional connections with fear of being hurt, which derives from not wanting to need it or not feeling worthy of it.
- You Need Someone To Be Happy – Your happiness is your inside job, not your partners. If you feel that your partner will make you happy, you have it all wrong. Learning to self soothe is one of the key healings in your journey. Law of Attraction states that in order to give love to someone else, one must learn to fall in love with oneself first. To enjoy someone else’s company, one must enjoy their own company. Be that person that everyone wants to be with, and that also includes YOU!
Subconscious Blocks and Patterns
Most often people are aware of their subconscious blocks and patterns, but have forgotten due to severe experience or trauma linked to it. On a soul level, in order for you to be protected, your higher self throws a veil over your recollection of the event or trauma. You know it as survival mechanism but your higher self will look at it as soul amnesia.
Money Blocks – Being in a spiritual journey means abundance in all areas of one’s life and money is definitely fitting in this criteria. Due to Heart Chakra being blocked, and not feeling deserving or worthy, money flow will continue its blocks from coming to you. Manifesting money will get challenging. Until you heal your relationship with money, it will direct your life where you are constantly worrying about money. This could come in forms of not having enough money to get things you desire or unexpected expenses. Money issues will also prevent you from booking sessions with healers who you desire to work with regarding your other blocks. See links to my full article and radio podcast on money blocks.
Geographical Blocks – This is not common among Twin Flame couples, but can be an issue where couples are living on the opposite ends of the World. Long distance relationships create tension between the couple where they are unable to be with each other due to work, lifestyle, family that ensures that they are apart. Working through these blocks serves one of the biggest obstacle to maneuver.
Cultural Blocks – This is not a big issue among most but still can be a reason for being a block. When both Twin Flames are facing cultural blocks due to being born in different race, it can create tension. Both have to adapt to the other Twin’s culture while living theirs.
Sexuality Blocks – This is a common block when one of the Twin Flame is heterosexual but their Twin Flame prefers same sex, meaning they are homosexual. While dealing with their own sudden reveal, they are now dealing with all sorts of blocks along with their attraction towards their Twin Flame. This could also be reversed as well where one Twin Flame is homosexual and learn that their Twin Flame is heterosexual.
Societal Blocks – Both or one Twin Flame is dealing with status (could be money related), specific roles whether in relationship, groups or organization which prevents them to commit to their Twin Flame. Their dire need to please people and things around them creates a block where they choose their obligation vs choosing their Twin Flame.
Karmic Blocks – This creates a block when one or both Twin Flames are in Karmic relationships with other people, most often known as third party within the Twin Flame community. Getting out of their Karmic relationship along with dealing with journey lessons are part of the equation within both Twins.
Religious Blocks – It is common for you and your Twin Flame to have different religions through your own cultural upbringing, though this may become a block where one wants the other to adapt to their religion. It can also be the case where one Twin Flame is quite religious through their upbringing, and the other Twin Flame is an atheist.
Clearing Karma – This is an interesting one to mention. Those who have done past life clearing see numerous blocks created through incurred karma during a particular lifetime, which then bleeds into this lifetime through their relationship dynamics with their Twin Flame. The karma created in that lifetime creates roadway blocks preventing the couple to have a blissful relationship, often keeping them apart rather than together.
Children Blocks – Blocks show up as karma, which essentially were created in previous lifetimes pertaining to children. This creates blocks in current relationship with your Twin Flame where both Twins want children but are not able to. It could also be a block trying to conceive due to pregnancy or fertility hardships. If you dig deep enough in your healing, you may also see that it could stem from some known or unknown childhood trauma. Either ways, these would create some blocks in having children with your Twin Flame.
Inner Child Blocks – When you have a wounded inner child who is looking for validation and dependency, it tends to bleed into all relationships, this also includes your Twin Flame. Through your Twin Flame’s behavior towards you, you will notice some of your own inner wounding emerge from childhood issues to heal and clear. When your inner child remains wounded, it creates a block with your Twin Flame. Some of the areas to focus here will be, anxiety, rejection, fear of abandonment, guilt, shame, insecurity, and vulnerability are naming a few.
Unconscious Blocks and Patterns
We talked about conscious and subconscious blocks but there is another crucial segment of the blocks to discuss which leads me to the last part of this article, the unconscious blocks.
Famous Swiss psychiatrist said, “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.” The saying fits in this category as I explain why healing the unconscious is very important. You will not know the depth of your own block until you get an explanation during your healing breakthrough with a healer.
This aspect is usually buried through many lifetimes of incarnations. You see, your soul threw a layer of protection so that you are born with soul amnesia. The whole point of this being the case is so that you are protected. You may have an intuitive idea through your Clair gifts and dreams that you have past lives, but in order to fully understand what or how your own blocks are present, vigorous healing is needed with specialized healers who can show you the blocks.
Once your unconscious blocks are revealed you will understand the repeated patterns and cycles and how it directed your entire life. And yes, you were calling it the works of fate until then.
Past Life Blocks
As I touched up earlier, karma can play in different work of scenarios. Each story is different and very specific, so in order to fully understand to heal on a deeper level, you have to access your blind areas. What you do not know, you simply do not know. In order to know what you do not know, you have to liaise with a healer who specializes in past life healing work.
Past Life Oaths and Vows
Here’s one that you would have never imagined in your wildest dreams to have made in previous lives. How oaths or vows are overriding everything what you take on in this lifetime. Vows and oaths, depending on the emotional severity of the time taken can wreak havoc in your current reality. The reason being, it carries the vibration, trauma, energy and emotion with it, which marks it extremely potent and lethal.
Some of the common vows and oaths that may be present as an obstacle are vows of poverty, vows of being rich, which are part of money blocks, and vows to only be with your Twin Flame. Those who made vows only to be with their Twin Flame have an invisible chastity belt around them, in other words only celibacy towards their Twin Flame. For those who have such vows of celibacy, no matter how hard they try to form other relationships with other potential mates, the vow of chastity overrides it, preventing them to have any physical relationship with anyone other their Twin Flame.
The only way you will know these types of blocks are if you encounter this in your unconscious part of your soul healing through a healer who specializes in past life healing.
Your Story
Your story is incomplete until you begin to know its origin. You need to understand why the story is there to begin with and why it is still bleeding into your current reality. When it comes to your own soul healing, no story is there serving as a decoration piece. It is sitting on the centerfold to get your attention. The only way you can heal this wounded aspect is to grab the bull by its horns, by facing your dragons and demons and meeting them in the eye.
Invest In Your Healing
One of the most important lessons to learn is that you have to step out of the victim mindset and take responsibility in your own healing. It is your responsibility to figure out what your blocks are that is still keeping you apart from your own inner transformation. There is no such thing as wishful thinking or magic dust to erase all your sorrows away.
The truth is that everything starts from you. The more you focus on yourself, the more you will shift your mental and emotional state. By identifying your subtle thoughts, patterns, blocks and traumas, you can break your repeating patterns and cycles. In your soul’s journey, healing does not skip this process so instead of wasting your time on trying to wonder what is going on, how about use that time wisely in shaping your life?
Begin owning that your problems run deeper than you consciously are led to believe….hence why your Twin Flame is running from the connection or is emotionally distant. Even if you learn and begin healing, know that this is not an overnight process. It can take months and years to heal the unconscious part. What is guaranteed in your own healing, if you heal your blocks, you open up roadways for a much better and brighter future whether you end up with your Twin Flame or not. By then you would be reaping the wonderful rewards of your own inner transformation.
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