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Twin Flames – Can Runner And Chaser Reverse Roles
Twin Flames are often classified as runners and chasers. In most ordinary connections, if one person is chasing the other, chances are that you are facing a one-sided affection, meaning that the chaser’s feeling towards other person is not reciprocated. In order to fully understand what is the difference between Twin Flame connection and ordinary connection, you have to first understand the difference between the two.
Ordinary connection, two people meet. One of the two or perhaps both have an intense liking and attraction towards each other. At some point, the energy between them shifts where one person does not feel the same way about the other person, and begins pulling off. The person pulling off will be known as the runner. Chaser feels disconnected and begins pursuing the runner relentlessly. The runner feels threatened and then reacts as extremely as drawing up a restraining order, disappearing, blocking or ghosting the chaser.
Twin Flame connection is different. Two people meet. Both get instant soul recognition of the other. One Twin Flame receives their soul awakening, commonly known as the more awakened one. Between both Twin Flames, the feeling and the attraction is intense and mutual, almost like an obsession. They share what I call a mutual exchange of energy, the bubble up phase.
One of the two senses fear regarding being hurt again. This fear usually stems from past life trauma they had with their Twin Flame, though in their mind it is a reflection of their past relationship experiences. Regardless of how they perceive it, the running then begins. They disconnect from the connection by blocking or ghosting their Twin Flame. Though the runner Twin Flame bolts, they still feel intense love towards their Twin Flame.
The main ego based reason why the runner bolts from their Twin Flame is the fear of history repeating once again. In the Divine Masculine’s mind, the fear of history repeating itself could be stemming from their past relationships, but in reality, it could stem from relationships they had with their Twin Flame in previous lives.
The chaser then begins to chase them energetically. The fear of abandonment then begins to daunt them. The main ego based reason why they are chasing their Twin Flame is because they do not want to lose them. The fear of losing them terrifies the living daylights out of them.
In some cases, if both Twin Flames are in a relationship, one physically and energetically withdraws from the connection temporarily. The chaser Twin Flame in the relationship senses their withdrawal and begins to wonder if they have done anything wrong in the relationship. In high in sight, the runner Twin Flame is going hot and cold, which is also known as “push and pull.”
The main reason why this is happening no matter what type of connection dynamics you are currently with your Twin Flame is, it uses closeness and distances to trigger core wounding for it to be healed on a vibrational level. After all, you are not having relationship issues, you are having vibrational issues.
It does not matter which way both Twins scrutinize the situation, both feel “fear” as the similarity mechanism. It is a catch to catch the mirror effect.
Divine Feminine And Divine Masculine
You learnt the dynamics between runner and chaser Twin Flames. You learnt that both exuviate “fear” in their own ways to take on the journey. Now we will go over who Divine Masculine is and who is Divine Feminine.
This may sound familiar to you that opposites attract. When it comes to romantic connections, opposites do attract. This is not gender specific as the concept applies to same sex couples as well. Between the couple, one will always have a stronger Masculine energy, whereas the other partner would carry more of a Feminine energy.
Even if a couple is man and a woman, the woman in the relationship can carry a stronger Masculine energy and male partner than would embody a stronger Feminine energy to balance the two. In another relationship, it is possible for both to switch the roles depending on their partner’s dominant energy. This may run home with some women who represented the Masculine energy in their previous relationship but in the Twin Flame connection, they embodied their Feminine energy since their Twin Flame embodies the Masculine energy.
This also can be the case if you are a man who represented the Feminine energy in your previous relationship and now embody the Masculine energy in your Twin Flame connection.
Regardless of what energy dominated in your previous relationships, you have to pay attention to which energy you are embodying in your Twin Flame connection.
When it comes to Twin Flame connection, the principle is it not any different. One would have a dominant Masculine energy and the other Twin Flame will have a dominant Feminine energy. It is a perfect balance. The Ying and the Yang, the Alpha and the Omega.
All relationships are designed this way as it correlates with the Law of Nature. Without the Law of Nature, the World cannot procreate. If we cannot procreate, all life force will be wiped off from its existence.
Twin Flames Switching Roles
This now brings me to Twin Flames. How does Divine Masculine and Feminine play their roles when it comes to the runners and chasers? In Twin Flame connection, Divine Feminine is known as the chaser and Divine Masculine as the runner. Let’s dive into the main course of the article, the main reason why you are reading this article. Do Twin Flames switch their roles at any given point of their connection?
The answer is not quite and I will explain why. In the many years of my teachings while going through my own Twin Flame ascension process, I have not come across any Twin Flame who can claim that they switched roles during their connection.
There is a higher understanding of why this is the case. Your Higher Self is the riding chariot and they fully understand and know on a soul level what will be the best course of action when it comes to your soul ascension process. The carrot has to be juicy enough for your soul to dangle your Twin Flame, and the fear of history repeating itself is enough for the other Twin Flame to continue running.
Don’t get me wrong, there are many articles and YouTube videos explaining that they can switch roles but those are for Twin Flames who are in a relationship and use the closeness and distances, the push and pull to work out their key traumas and blocks. Switching roles do not apply to the majority of Twin Flames who are in permanent separation and are not in any relationship with their beloved.
Twin Flame journey is not for all, and is definitely not one size fits all, hence why I do not emphasize on any particular Twin Flame stages. Each connection has their own unique start and ending, with challenges and blocks right in the middle.
So do Twin Flames stop running and chasing at some point of their journey. Yes, throughout their journey, the chaser Twin Flame will pull their energy back and begin focusing on their own life. When this happens the runner Twin Flame senses it right away. Because both are an energetic blueprint of one another, each Twin Flame can sense the other Twin Flame’s energetic shift.
After some point of time, the chaser Twin Flame permanently seizes the chase as they realize that it is pointless to chase their Twin Flame. That is when they begin to embody their own self-acceptance and voluntarily begin to change their life around.
This occurs when the chaser has had enough and decides it is pointless to keep wishing for the runner to return to them. Divine Feminine soon realizes that as long as they continue to chase, their Twin Flame will continue to run even more. Only when the chaser stops chasing and starts to live their own life again by fulfilling their life purpose, dreams and goals, while leaving behind any hopes or wishes for their runner’s return, would the runner feel that they can focus on what they want as well. This could very well be their Twin Flame at the end after all.
The entire lesson is designed this way so that the Divine Feminine begins to learn their value and self-love by working on their own energetic healing and blocks. When the Divine Feminine begins to learn their soul lessons and heal, the runner Twin Flame senses their soul growth and healing. They no longer view the chaser Twin Flame as in need to be rescued.
When the chaser Twin Flame begins to focus on their life, they mirror this aspect to their Twin Flame who also begins to shed any physical, mental, emotional blocks that is keeping both apart. If the chaser Twin Flame is focused on their self-mastery, the runner Twin Flame senses their self-transformation and automatically begins to get drawn to them.
3D VS 5D
During the running and chasing phase, the chaser Twin Flame feels their Twin Flame spiritually. I term it more spiritually vs 5D because many do not understand the latter. 3D and 5D are mainly consciousness; a physical state of being in. 5D is an energetic bliss state of Heaven on Earth. There is no such thing as 3D being here on Earth and 5D being somewhere in the heavens. Bringing 5D frequency is experiencing the Heaven on Earth.
When you are with your Twin Flame spiritually, you get the Heaven on Earth experience, the bliss state of pure 5D ecstasy. Many Twin Flames are known to be in euphoric state when they encounter each other initially. The entire soul purpose for all Twin Flames is to anchor a permanent 5D state of consciousness, and the only way this is achieved is through their own soul alchemy. The more you work on your wellbeing, the more shifts you make in your consciousness.
5D state is not an illusion but merely an introduction of what lies ahead by your Higher Self on what life could look like whether you end up with your Twin Flame or not. When you anchor your 5D consciousness, manifesting your heart’s desire will come easily to you, and that could easily very well be with your Twin Flame, or someone much better.
Now it brings me to the main topic after a quick understanding of 5D frequency. Many chaser Twin Flames feels that their runner Twin Flame is constantly chasing them in 5D. I term it more on a spiritual level. What this means is through dreams and telepathy, the runner Twin Flame is constantly in contact with the other Twin Flame. The chaser Twin Flame finds their Twin Flame in their headspace through constant thoughts. Through many ongoing signs and syncs, they often feel that their Twin Flame is haunting them, which enables them to move on.
The reason the chaser Twin Flame feels them energetically all the time is because essentially in physical reality, their runner Twin still desires to be with them no matter how it may seem. In reality, they cannot live without their Twin Flame as much as the other Twin Flame.
On a spiritual level, this is as per their soul agreement. Each Twin Flame orchestrated which role to play so that both can get triggered and healed, while also learning valuable soul lessons for their soul growth.
Soul Contract
We briefly touched upon soul contracts. All humankind, including animals are living a contractual soul agreement from the moment they disembarked from Source Energy through their soul origin. As they lived each lifetime, they drew a specific soul contract before incarnating. Soul contracts are the governing agent, an indivisible navigation system, steering you through many lives, soul experiences and lessons.
You may find this article resonating so far from the way your own Twin Flame journey has panned out so far. The reason why all Twin Flames face the runner and chaser equation is because at pre-birth, it was within their soul agreement.
Once incarnated you do not remember your own soul contracts. You have no idea what is in your soul contract, nor the lessons you agreed upon to gain. This is known as soul amnesia. Even this aspect is planned so that you only focus on the current lessons rather than all lessons you have learnt from previous lifetimes.
Whether you believe on soul agreements or not, it is nevertheless still there. This is why you have heard within the community to surrender to your own soul alchemy and allow things to unfold organically vs forcing the outcome.
If you are the chaser in your Twin Flame relationship, embrace being a chaser. I remember during the early stages of my own Twin Flame journey, being called a chaser was frowned upon. As I dove into my own soul alchemy and Twin Flame mission, I began to embrace and accept the label. If you are a chaser, you wouldn’t be where you are currently in your Twin Flame journey. You would have not evolve so much spiritually, mentally and emotionally. Simply compare yourself during your initial Twin Flame awakening.
If you are a runner, you should also embrace this aspect of your Twin Flame journey. Had you not loved your Twin Flame as much as you do, you wouldn’t have kept till the end of your soul contract, despite you aching and longing to be with your Twin Flame. If you didn’t stay true to your soul contract, your Twin Flame would not advanced as much as they have in their soul alchemy. If you did not love them so much to stay within your soul agreement, they would not undergo so much healing.
If this is not deep unconditional love between both Twin Flames, then what is?
Runners and chasers have an important role to play for the pair. In order for a chaser to exist, the runner has to be at play. In order for the runner to exist, the chaser has to be at play. Each role is unique in their own way designed by your Higher Selves. Whether you end up switching roles or not, simply allow your own Higher Selves to show you in their own way. On the contrary, switching roles does not constitute in any reunion.
Your Twin Flame journey is unique to your connection. I pray that this article finds you well. If you wish to purchase any of my services, click here. Feel free to share this article if it resonates. Thank you and much blessings.
Know your journey, know your connection.
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