When Your Twin Flame Rejects You
Let’s face it. It is never easy to face rejection from anyone, let alone from your one and only Twin Flame, the very person you would never imagine to hurt you. So why is it that facing rejection from them hurts. The problem about being rejected in love is that it makes you question your self-worth. Dealing with rejection in any love connection can be quite painful with its wounding penetrating deep, so do not feel that you are alone when it comes to facing rejection from your Twin Flame. You will be surprised that this is more common than you perceive it to be.
In this article, not only will I teach you how to master through the turmoil’s of Twin Flame rejection but also what the underlying messages are which you may or may not know.
Before we dive deep into the article, you must ask yourself, “What is rejection and how it applies to you?” No matter what kind of relationship you have with your Twin Flame, at some point of time, you will face rejection. You must ask yourself why this happens and why it is so unbearable.
Rejection can be defined as the act of pushing someone or something away. People often experience rejection from one’s family of origin, a friend, or a romantic partner, often resulting in painful emotions. Rejection can be experienced on a large scale or in small ways in everyday life. This could be at work, business, customers, clients, friends, family. Some rejections can run deeper than the other.
When you first realize that you are being rejected, you might not be able to speak much or may feel physically sick. Because rejection rules the Solar Plexus Chakra, do not be surprised if you have stomach issues shortly after.
Physical and psychological symptoms such as unable to eat, sleep, concentration in matters of work, day-to-day matters can elude you for weeks. Some can even last for months and years. Although the intensity of your negative emotions will gradually fade, you will continue having good days and bad days thereafter. Slowly, you will learn to enjoy your life once again and will begin to notice other exciting opportunities.
Getting Rejected In Love
One of the hardest areas to be rejected is Twin Flame love. The suffering that comes with this type of rejection is considerably harder than in most other scenarios. The reason this is the case, because you both are one soul, so when your Twin Flame rejects you, it feels like a part of you has died. Being rejected from one’s Twin Flame is more excruciating than being rejected from someone else in love.
In typical love connection, interestingly enough, many people tend to love and desire those who aren’t as passionate about them. Some may argue that it is a point of winning them over that originates from their goal. Does this aspect apply when you are dealing with a Twin Flame? According to most, they will say that your obsession with your Twin Flame is a direct result of not being able to be with them. They will feel that the fear of being rejected makes you more passionate about what you cannot have, which can turn the suffering to be even more.
You cannot weigh Twin Flame connections on a same level as a normal romantic connection. You see, the journey is designed this way by your Higher Self to ensure that you constantly are triggered enough to once again own rejected parts of yourselves. Furthermore, this is why your Twin Flame is assisting you to figure this part of the lesson, to have you pull yourself together.
In a way, you will never be able to fool your Twin Flame. Your Twin Flame can energetically feel and see rejected parts of yourself, hence why in order to teach you, they tend to reject you on a subconscious level.
At that time you may not realize the deeper meaning of the lessons, but as time permits, more light will be shed so that you will become aware of your own hidden inner wounding.
Facing Rejection
I am sure you remember how it felt when your Twin Flame initially rejected you. After being rejected, most Twin Flames then seek guidance from readers and coaches to understand what just had happened. They want to make sense as to why especially after having a time of their life in this intense amazing connection did their Twin Flame pull off.
They seek solace with other Twin Flames through Social Media and YouTube who have similar experiences. This is when they come across soul guidance. During initial rejection phase, Twin Flames often seek their personal friends and family to buffer their abandonment wounding, then they find themselves feathering out to other Twin Flames who are in a similar journey. The pattern is similar with most who are in a Twin Flame journey.
Shortly after the initial rejection, some Twin Flames find themselves facing one nightstands or brief romantic connections in the attempt to get their Twin Flame out of their mind. Unfortunately, this is a fail. Others like myself go in a shopping spree to feel pampered and appreciated. These Twin Flames feel initially that material goods will bandage the pain of rejection. Does any of these methods work? It may work temporarily but eventually Twin Flames know that the unresolved sorrow returns with a vengeance.
If this was an ordinary connection, even if they did not receive a closure, it becomes easier to move along to the next best thing, but Twin Flames find it next to impossible to forget their beloved. The feelings are mutual between both the stayer Twin Flame and the runner Twin Flame.
This then leads into the self-isolation part where majority of their soul work alchemizes. If this sounds familiar then you know now that it is a common experience for most Twin Flames.
What Divine Masculine Does
This may come as a surprise to many readers that even Divine Masculine do majority of their self-reflection during the separation phase. Many also go through their “dark night of the soul” phase as well. For those who are not aware of what a “dark night of the soul” means, it is a phrase often used informally to describe an extremely difficult and painful period in one’s life, for example, after the death of a loved one; the break-up of a relationship; or the diagnosis of a life-threatening illness.
Many Divine Masculine begin to conquer the financial world to forget their Twin Flame. Even if they are not familiar with the term Twin Flames, they are familiar of the term Soul Mates and soul connections.
During their self-reflection and dark night of the soul phase, they get prophecies regarding their connection from past lives and much more. Many Divine Feminine claim that their Twin Flame is not spiritual but they would be surprised that their Divine Masculine is awakened to their soul journey during the separation phase. Some may be slow to their awakening, while others face rapid awakening. This differs based on their own consciousness and their awakening process and their willingness to embrace their soul’s journey. There is no right or wrong of this process. Each is unique to their own individuality and their ability to master their journey and soul lessons.
Even if the runner Twin Flame is in a Karmic connection, they are still going through their metamorphic stages. It will be wrong to assume that they are having a time of their life with their Karmic partners. Trust that if you are going through metamorphic stages during your separation phases, they are too. As they transcend into a higher vibration, so will you and vice versa.
What Divine Feminine Should Do
If you are in a separation phase, the initial blow of Twin Flame rejection will catapult you into a series of irrational behaviors. Once you come to terms with the separation, moving forward in your soul alchemy becomes an easier process. Many Divine Feminine will embark in their healing and spiritual work during this phase. Some even find a path to their life purpose and soul mission.
Some begin to anchor their roots into the business world or an acclaimed career. Not all stayer Twin Flames frantically search for an outcome with their Twin Flame. These Twin Flames begin to focus more on their own self-worth and growth vs desiring to be with their Twin Flame.
In other words, if you have not begun to heal inwards, it will remain to affect you in your outer reality as well. Best to see what your Twin Flame is mirroring back to you with their behaviors and your triggers. Begin to live your life while you heal as well. Pay attention to any set relationship patterns that may be occurring. Figure out whether you are indeed dealing with a Twin Flame and not a Catalyst Twin Flame or a Karmic. Connect with your Ascended Masters who are overseeing your union process.
Pay attention to your spiritual downloads and insights for the future. Pay attention to what is being shown to you to heal. Are you meant to serve a Twin Flame mission by becoming a healer? Connect to your Guides be it nature spirits, Archangels or deceased loved ones. Read materials, which would aid you through your ascension process such as articles, social media posts, self-help books. Pay attention to your own spiritual gifts and whether you are meant to use them to serve the world. Book healing sessions with healers to learn and clear original wounding be it your inner child trauma, past life traumas or ancestral trauma.
As you can clearly see, there are many teachings within the connection and the journey. Each is designed to help you tackle lost and buried aspects of yourself. The journey was never about faint hearted. It was always meant to transform you into a light being. As you focus on you, it will continue to have a knock off effect on your Twin Flame.
Setting Goals
You don’t have to know how to do it. You just have to know you can. ~ Bob Proctor
This brings me to the next part of your lessons. You understood why your Twin Flame rejects you. You also understood that during the rejection phase, you are meant to self-reflect and soul search on what your next course of healing and ascension process is. You also understood that you might have Twin Flame blocks that needs to be healed and cleared once and for all.
What you should know is that setting goals can be a healthy outlook in overcoming the rejection aspect by your Twin Flame. When you channelize your energy in getting something completed, you often will feel accomplished. Setting realistic goals can have a positive effect on your Twin Flame connection. Remember if you are less focused on them and more on your goals, you automatically shift your longing to be with them.
This works as a great distraction tactic to keep yourself busy. When you are busy, the mind wonders less. Keeping busy also shifts the energy from your Twin Flame and more on the object of your goal. Because you both are energetically bound together, when you shift your energy on other matters, your Twin Flame feels it on an energetic level. Suddenly they feel that they are not number one priority in your life and this knowledge isn’t a bad deal. Not only you will feel a sense of your own worth, but also you will feel that you are stepping into your own power.
Nothing is impossible. The word itself says, “I’m possible!” ~ Audrey Hepburn
Healing
Many Twin Flames are afraid to heal because their entire existence is centered around the traumas they have experienced. The trauma then becomes their identity. Most are too afraid to look past their trauma. They have no idea who they are outside of their trauma, and that unknown fact terrifies them.
Once you begin healing on many levels, you begin to master Twin Flame journey and shift your state of being in. I hope this article helped you to see a different light to Twin Flame rejection. Whether you choose to use rejection as its own healing and lessons, or focus on the inflicted wounding by your Twin Flame, I will leave for you to figure out.
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Know your journey, know your connection.
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