Why Your Soul Dangles Your Twin Flame
No matter what shape, form, size or ethnicity your Twin Flame may very well be…if you are a Twin Flame reading this article and have come across your beloved, no matter what type of connection you are in with them, whether in embodiment or not, they are simply irresistible to you. Why is this? Did you ever wonder about this? I mean, surely, there are a million suiters in the World that may interest you, so then why is it that your Twin Flame is all you crave or think about…
If you are guilty of such, do not worry since you are not alone. After being in a Twin Flame journey myself for almost four years, and dealing with my own Twin Flame for over three years, I want to say that in different stages of our inner union process, I cultivated on the same dilemma myself. As I experienced my own journey process, while dealing with thousands of collective consciousness for over three and half years, I observed a similar pattern among all Twin Flames and their connection with their beloved, which led me to write about this article.
Mirror Souls
You must have heard of Twin Flame mirroring and how they are mirror souls of each other. The reason why it is termed as such, think about it for a second. When you look at yourself in the mirror, do you not see a reflection of you? Same concept is taken for Twin Flames. Since they are of the same soul split into two different souls’ eons ago, they are very much alike in many ways. This is why you find so many similarities with your beloved, be it their physical appearance, race, religion, likes, dislikes, personality traits, birth charts, goals, aspirations, spirituality and so much more…
What this means is that whatever likes and dislikes you love/hate about your Twin Flame, is the very thing reflected back to you in regards to love/hate with yourself.
So for instance, if they are ignoring you in physical reality by either seizing all communications by blocking you on Social Media, or physically being distant with you in a relationship, that is the very aspect you lack when it comes to you. Your Twin Flame’s behavior is reflecting back your own inner desires to tend to your very own needs and wants, your inner self-love.
This is why the runner Twin Flame’s behavior in physical reality will force the chaser Twin Flame to face their own love/hate aspects of themselves to heal. Their behavior is meant to trigger this aspect. It is how the Twin Flame connection uses these sort of triggering mechanisms to get you to keep healing in all levels of your energetic blocks within you. The journey was never about them, but in fact, it was always about you, how you were always meant to face your own wounds and integrate your own healing.
Your Twin Flame is a byproduct of your own ascension process, to rediscover who you were always meant to be in your true Divine essence. This was in fact your Higher Self’s ambition, the primal desire to become whole once again. Your Twin Flame is a catalyst into your own ascension process, not the result. Whether your Twin Flame becomes “your end result” depends on your own soul contract.
Your Twin Flame As a Juicy Bait
This now leads me to the main topic of this article. Why your Twin Flame suddenly is the most irresistible being on this planet, and why you cannot get them out of your system. Let’s face it, if you are awakened to your Twin Flame journey, you are aware of your Twin Flame, no matter whether you have met them in person or not. You must already know that once you are awaken to your Twin Flame journey, you have already felt your Twin Flame energetically.
You see, your soul knew the ultimate way to dangle your Twin Flame so that you focus on what your soul’s primal desire is, to become the person you were always destined to become. The only way it was possible was to dangle something so divinely irresistible at the finishing line, your very own Twin Flame. Whether this becomes your reality at the finishing line, only your soul knows.
Your Twin Flame will be dangled to you time after time as a juicy bait, and the reason why this is the case is so that you can dive into your own soul alchemy, to connect back to Source Energy through an intense ascension process. The only way this can be achieved is through your Twin Flame and the primal desire to be in a relationship with them. Through your burning desire, the need to be around them will be intense, and the need to be in a relationship with them will be equally as intense to the point of intense excruciating inner pain.
In addition, this is not the worst part; the worst part is when you begin to resist your urges. You must have heard this phrase, “The more you resist, the more it persist.” The more you resist, the more your desires will persist.
Your soul knew this aspect of you and this whole push and pull dynamics was brilliantly orchestrated by your very own soul.
I know, you are probably wondering why your soul does this. You see, your soul is you in its highest form, so it naturally knows how you operate.
Think about your soul as being the operating system in a computer and through that operating system, you are plugged in as a software. Without any operating system, no program can run in the computer. The operating system is the main hive to the computer. The relationship with one’s higher self is the same way. Once you see it being laid analytically this way, you notice how it marries off each other.
Twin Flame Obsession
This now leads me to the next part of this article. Twin Flame obsession stages and whether it changes. Yes and no. No, being that in the initial phase of your connection, your main objective is only to get your Twin Flame to be in a relationship with you, and that could very well be to drag them into a wedlock. Yes, being that when you begin to focus on your own healing and soul journey, the obsession stage will lessen its grip on your desires to be with your Twin Flame.
Many times, you will notice the highs and lows of the obsession as well. Through short phases, you will find that you are not obsessing over your Twin Flame and the next phase will lead into an intense obsession period.
I call this the push and pull phases of your soul journey. A constant battle of reasoning that you are fine without them and later having the pleading need to be with them. Through the course of your journey, you will notice that both phases interchange from one to the other.
Again, the reason it is designed this way by your soul is so that each time you begin obsessing with your Twin Flame, you are in fact diving one layer deeper into your own soul healing to release an energetic block.
This is actually a good thing when it comes to your healing as it is meant for you to heal on a deep unconscious level. Your Twin Flame’s behavior in reality also assists in the healing process. Imagine if they did not do their part, how are you going to be triggered to heal?
If all were bliss in your connection, then exactly what would you heal? You wouldn’t gain soul lessons. The connection’s high and low phases is meant for you to continue doing your shadow work and the only way you can go deeper is when you are wounded. Which now leads me to the next part of the article, what comes after Twin Flame healing…
Twin Flame Healing
We talked about mirror souls and how your Twin Flame mirrors you. We also talked about how your soul uses your Twin Flame as a scrumptious juicy bait. We also touched on why you are constantly obsessed with your Twin Flame. Now we dive deep on the healing aspect, why Twin Flame healing is pivotal in your soul’s journey.
If you are on a Twin Flame journey, you must already know that you have lived many lifetimes. Some lifetimes you lived where both you and your Twin Flame incarnated, and some lifetimes you incarnated alone. During those lives, you created karma and energetic roadblocks, which is now creating havoc in this lifetime. If you dig into your past lives incarnated, you will learn that what had happened in those lifetimes bled into this lifetime.
There is no such thing as knowing you were a certain someone in past lives such as a prince, princess, queen or a king unless it has some bearing or significance to your healing in this lifetime. Your soul will not reveal this aspect unless you need to know something in order to heal and clear any energetic blocks.
Once you begin to heal your inner child wounds and some of the other healing modalities such as past lives, you realize that some of the sequences that occurred to you in this lifetime was also shown in other lifetimes. There is a well explained reason for this and that is that you were born with soul amnesia. So in order for you to remember, same sequences played once again or repeatedly in your current life so that it helps you to remember.
Because trauma is always attached to karma from those lifetimes, your soul threw a protective layer of amnesia so that you do not remember prematurely. Imagine living with those burdens from previous lives when you were not ready to heal and clear them.
Often Twin Flames are under the misconception that they can skip healing but same cycles and patterns re-repeat over and over again until you eventually begin to heal permanently. Unfortunately, same patterns, cycles and blocks will keep repeating even if you do not want to deal with your soul healing. When put this way, you can reflect on your own life and notice how the patterns and cycles repeated with every connection and phases of your life.
Your healing was not a coincidence and neither are your repeated patterns, cycles, karma and energetic blocks. Each is here to remind you constantly on what your own agreement was with your soul.
Soul Journey Integration
The final step to this process is the soul integration. Once you begin to heal on a subconscious level, you begin to understand the soul lessons and its higher learning. You learn that each experience was something your soul wanted to experience.
You see, you cannot experience anything on a soul level. In order for you to experience growth and expansion along with its lessons, you have to incarnate as a human being. After all, you are a spiritual being simply living a human experience. On a soul level, everything is a merry bliss. In order to understand emotions and gain soul lessons, you have to incarnate in an embodiment.
Your incarnation was not a coincidence. You meeting your Twin Flame was not a coincidence. You becoming awakened to your Twin Flame journey was not a coincidence. You embarking in a massive ascension process is definitely not a coincidence!
You chose to do all these with such an intricate plan. You are not here by an accident and neither is your healing. You were destined to become the highest version of who you were always meant to be. The journey has many highlights and when you begin to receive many gifts in the process of your own quest for answers, you will suddenly realize that all the missing puzzles were always within you to place.
As you can see, even your Twin Flame being used as a juicy bait was not a coincidence. Hope you enjoyed reading this article and it finds you well. If you wish to purchase any of my services, click here. Feel free to share this article if it resonates. Thank you and much blessings.
Know your journey, know your connection.
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